A distillation of the most effective approaches to relational happiness—coaching, workshops and retreats for couples in all stages of relationship offered in Boulder and Longmont, Colorado.

When you look around... 
Do you see friends and family struggling with their relationships? 

"I am stunned and deeply grateful for what we have received here."  —Physician

"This has been instrumental in revitalizing, renewing and redirecting our marriage."  —Educator

How were you affected by what you witnessed growing up? 

"The impact on my kids is just amazing... a pivotal experience for our family."  —Mother of four

"My parents can fight now, get over it and still be loving."  —Teenaged daughter

"The impact on my kids is just amazing... a pivotal experience for our family."

  —Mother of four

"My parents can fight now, get over it and still be loving."

  —Teenaged daughter

Relating with Heart is for couples who want to avoid these problems... 

Who are looking for high-quality support and relationship mentors 

 they can trust. 

"Honesty and vulnerability are your biggest assets, both individually and as a couple.
Easy to listen to & always informative, extremely effective discernment and  compassion."

—Civil Engineer

"I learned an amazing collection of practical tools that I can actually use and that are working

for me in all my close relationships. My only regret is not having these tools a long time ago."   —Business Consultant

A massive cultural shift has left most of us with high expectations for fulfillment—not as willing as past generations to make do or just get by. 

"Your warmth and kindness, your faith in me... and in goodness are contagious. Your astounding courage and integrity has cast a beam of light into the shadowy places in yourself—myself—with acceptance, perspective and kindness that leaves no room for shame; only illumination, compassion, growth and humor."  —Grad Student  

However, being consistently great together is not easy to achieve—given all our other responsibilities and, at times, different needs. 

"Changed patterns I have been working with in therapy for 10 or 15 years and could not budge...  You threw us a lifeline with your commitment, your compassion & your devotion to working with us in an effective way."  —Administrator

Plus it can be hard to feel dependent on someone who sometimes makes you crazy. 

"I never imagined we could make this much progress."

"We loved each other, but could not live together—there was so much pain. The tools are like water in the desert."


This struggle can either drive you apart,

or bring you closer together

as better people, more resilient, loving, and in-love. 

"Gratitude, love, commitment, and self-discovery keep growing."  


"Profoundly healing in all my relationships." 


Those with the commitment and resources to achieve this are  consistently having experiences most can only dream about. 

Get where you want to be, faster than you imagine is possible.

Attend a FREE Prelude or True Love Retreat to find out more. 

"A miracle in our relationship."

 —Corporate executive

"Gave me hope that the realization of love can actually be greater than its promise."

 —Resource planner

Prelude flyer for free introduction to couples counseling and retreats

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  FREE Prelude

  • 2.5 hour introduction and mini-retreat

  • Meet the leaders

  • Learn two surprisingly useful tools to easily and significantly upgrade your relationship


Basic True Love flyer for marriage therapy, couples counseling and retreats

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  Basic True Love

  • Highly-acclaimed introductory wknd retreat

  • Meets Saturday 9-6 and Sunday 1-6 with three follow-up evenings (two are online) as part of a 30-day relationship make-over