A distillation of the most effective approaches to relational happiness. Coaching, workshops and retreats for couples in all stages of relationship. Offered in Boulder and Longmont, Colorado.

When you look around... 
Do you see friends and family struggling with their relationships? 

How were you affected by what you witnessed growing up? 

"The impact on my kids is just amazing... a pivotal experience for our family."  —Mother of four

"My parents can fight now, get over it and still be loving."  —Teenaged daughter

Relating with Heart is for couples who want to avoid these problems... 

Who are looking for high-quality support and relationship mentors they can trust.


A massive cultural shift has left most of us with high expectations for fulfillment 

not as willing as past generations to make do or just get by. 

However, being consistently great together is not easy to achieve—given all our other responsibilities and, at times, different needs. 


Plus it can be hard to feel dependent on someone who sometimes makes you crazy. 


This struggle can either drive you apart, or bring you closer together

as better people, more resilient, loving, and in-love. 

Those with the commitment and resources to achieve this are having experiences most can only dream about. 

Get where you want to be, faster than you imagine possible.

Stop wasting time in irritation and bickering.

Return to the best of yourselves.

Believing this can work for you is not a requirement for success. All that is necessary is an open-mind and goodwill.

With the right support, it is not that hard to rekindle tenderness and loverestoring desire and better angels.

You will achieve awareness and skill to sustain your growth and happiness, as you find relational mastery.

Attend the Basic True Love retreat weekend:

  • Increase your pleasure and joy

  • Become closer as you resolve your differences

  • Recover ease and delight

Basic True Love flyer for marriage therapy, couples counseling and retreats

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Not sure yet? Want to know more?

Attend a FREE online Prelude:

  • The 4 keys to living in gratitude

  • Emptying the Jug—5 simple steps for openness and connection

  • Meet with and experience the facilitators

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“I told my husband I was ready to separate. We had worked so hard on our relationship for over 10 years and it just felt like it was intractably stuck. He had just heard about your course and asked me if I’d be willing to give it one more chance.  We went to the class but I was pretty closed. 

"There are no words to describe the transformation that occurred from that weekend retreat and the tools you provided us. Religiously using those tools, we are communicating better than I could have ever imagined and our communications are full of love and support. I wouldn’t have believed it possible if I hadn’t experienced it myself. 

"I am happy to talk to anyone who is on the fence about taking the class. It has been one of the most powerful experiences of my life. To go from ready to call it to deeply connected and passionately in love again. We learned more in one weekend than we did in years of couples therapy. I can’t thank you enough.”

—Executive Director